{"product_id":"dear-bi-men","title":"Dear Bi Men - A Black Man's Perspective on Power, Consent, Breaking Down Binaries, and Combating Erasure","description":"\u003cb\u003eAn unapologetic guide for readers who are Black, masc, and bi—unlearning biphobia, coming out, combatting erasure, and embodying your whole self\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThrough cutting social analysis, personal stories, and need-to-know advice, \u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eDear Bi Men\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e reclaims bi+ visibility in a culture of erasure—and unapologetically centers Blackness in a practical and deeply researched guide to navigating life, work, and relationships as a Black bi+ man.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003ePopular representation of bi and pansexual men is growing, but we’re not there yet: It’s mostly white. It collapses bisexual identity into tired, hypersexualized tropes. And it fails to interrogate the deeply entrenched stereotypes that insist: \u003ci\u003eYou’re confused. You just don’t know you’re gay. You’re greedy. You must be great in bed.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eAuthor, peer counselor, and creator of #bisexualmenspeak J.R. Yussuf pushes back against these stigmas and misconceptions, exploring how white supremacy reinforces biphobia and dictates what society thinks it means to “be a man.” He contextualizes discourse around queerness and bisexuality within a larger framework that honors readers’ intersecting identities. And he offers deeply practical advice, sharing how to:\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eUnlearn internalized biphobia and homophobia\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eNavigate an increasingly hostile digital landscape\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThink about coming out: who to tell, why to tell them, and how to do it\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFight back against erasure and stigma\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eNavigate sex, dating, partnerships, marriage, friendship, and work\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eUnderstand your bi+ sexuality through a political lens\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eProcess Black bi+ representation\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cbr\u003eRich with personal narratives, insightful analysis, and practical advice, this book is a powerful resource for Black bi+ men to reclaim their identity, counter biphobia, and get empowered—and an offering to all readers looking to fight back against the erasure and dehumanization wrought by patriarchy.","brand":"Penguin Random House","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":50949296619808,"sku":"9781623179687","price":19.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0836\/3661\/7504\/files\/9781623179687.jpg?v=1763616361","url":"https:\/\/creativebysanchez.com\/products\/dear-bi-men","provider":"Creative By Sanchez","version":"1.0","type":"link"}